I miss several things. Being an adult is complicated and comes with a lot of baggage I’m not equipped for. So I’ll be telling y’all about things I miss as a kid. Here we go:
I miss the free feeling of living
When I was five, the only thing I was worried about was…… nothing. I was worried about NOTHING!!! Oh my god, I was really without worries and living life carefree. I wanted ice cream, parties, dresses, play dress up and wear nice hair, wear all my nice socks and shoes at once. Here I am, the brain box of overthinking, just breathing and doing all I know how to do. OVERTHINK
The encompassing effect of love
My mother showed me so much love as a kid. She wore me beautiful roses coloured glasses and made sure I never took them off. I was cared for and loved in the midst of chaos and of course, real life. I never really had a fear. I got everything I wanted. You could even say I was a little bit spoiled. Not to worry, I’m quite “balanced” now. The only “bad” effect of this is that I can be a little picky. The amazing part is that I know the kind of love I want and deserve!
The bills free life
Ugh! This might be what I miss the most. As a relatively spoilt child-adult (I refuse to call myself an adult) that I am, I almost always got what I wanted. Money, money, more money for everything I wanted. This approach is a bit problematic (my mother wasn’t always available, so she threw money at the problem) but I didn’t care, at least, at that time. I was fine with it. Spent money like a drug dealer. It was really fun while it lasted.
The ally I thought I’d always have
My mother and I were best friends when I was little till I became a teenager. We went on ice cream dates, we went to the office during holidays and construction sites during the weekends. I loved it, I still miss it. Her clients and workers complimenting me on how smart I was. Showing off my new clothes or newly made hair. Yunno, there was always something. I remember when I wanted to be the princess of my sports house in primary school and my father said no. My mother asked me not to worry and paid for everything. Even supported my house with some things they needed. I was really excited about it. It’s one of my favourite memories.
Mind you, we didn’t have a lot when I was a kid. We were just two kids then and my parents made enough for the both of us. My brother didn’t require a lot of things, so the extras went to me. Of course, I gladly accepted them and more.
Tell me what you missed the most, when you were a kid or a teenager!!!!
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